(I though it was only appropriate juxtaposed to my previous entry. Many thanks for the feedback by the way!)
Single ladies - Hey, we're livin' the life too!
But when it comes down to it.. We are honestly too busy (and traditional) to think to ourselves that we need a boyfriend to solely fuck. But that doesn't free us from day dreaming and hoping for a significant other to spoil.
Ladies in the dating scene - Hella livin' the life (to my assumptions)
Guy here, guy there but always dissatisfied because we also need a ride or die G. At the end of the day, the commitment is vital.
Ladies in a relationship - This is the climax to livin' the life.
Got that commitment, got that stimulating sex life and we're settled. Looking for ways to improve and excite the relationship on a consistent basis even in the presence of nonsense bickering, miscommunications and fights.
Personally, I have boundary issues with men. Or maybe that's not fair to say. To have issues with boundaries, one must have boundaries in the first place, right? But I disappear into the person I love. I am the permeable membrane. If I love you, you can have everything. You can have my time, my devotion, my ass, my money, my dog (RIP) - everything. If I love you, I will carry for you all your pain, I will assume for you all your debts (in every definition of the word), I will protect you from your own insecurity, I will project upon you all sorts of good qualities that you have never actually cultivated in yourself and I will buy Christmas presents for your entire family. I will give you the sun and the rain, and if they are not available, I will give you a sun check and a rain check. I will give you all this and more, until I get so exhausted and depleted because of neglect that the only way I can recover my energy is by becoming infatuated with someone else.
12/04/2008
Female Species 101
"Is there any boys around that know how to make a girl feel?"
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Is there any boys around that know how to make a girl feel?
I don't know about that Denise. But I do know...
There is a boy around that know how to make a girl's day chill.
Single ladies - It's a bit here and there, minimal ladies and gentlemen are feening for a loyal relationship nowadays. There isn't nothing wrong with men, it's all media playing bullshit. It's come up to whatever fucked up shit happens to you single ladies... It just has to precede as a justification against men.
Ladies in the dating scene - Shiiiiit, have you seen some real hoes lately? Like men, some of you girls are nasty. Commitment maybe vital but hey, it's like a colouring book.. Colour outside the line and it gets messy.
Ladies in a relationship - That's that bidness. Settled and good crotch feel. I got no argument on this.
Honestly, we both are equal. I know you know that. But there's a sense in every blog you do. Men/ladies like to cheat, steal, lie, fuck, etc.
Personally, boundaries are to be made Denise. It sucks that these men have fucked you over but, there are still some of those... "I-don't-want-to-say-sorry-to-her-but-I-just-fucking-did" gentlemen. Still those, go-to-bed-at-11!
(and when she doesn't, in his head, "ugh I will never tell her to go to bed again cause she never listens")
*The next night..
Be-in-bed-by-10! Still those persistent gentlemen that are willing to keep a foot down no matter what left or right shit happens from the get-go.
CAUSE HE'S a GO-GETTA! GO-GETTA! (haha sorry, random)
He won't give you, make you, care for you, make time for you, etc.....
But, he will sing/rap hip-hop songs to you. All those giveyou, makeyou, careforyou, maketimeforyou shit is that "rap" word. Singing and rapping is truly hip-hop. That's his culture. Ent no necessities or obligations, but some serious learning and universal shit from every emotion.
Whatever it is about men and women......
It's motherfucking serious. Get hurt or ya don't? Cry a little. Scream a little. Fall away. Whatever.
Only the real could truly feel it. If you're all fun and games. "NIGGA YOU BETTER WATCH OUT OR MY HOMEYS WILL RUN YOUR SHIT."
It's all good in the end.
Oh and so wassup?
Loyalty? Hell yeah it plays a big part. Hence...
Justin Laylo? loyaL.
Wasssssssssssssssup Denise.
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